This is our male cat. He's sweet and craves petting and scratching and rubbing. Like most males. Do you want to know how we know for sure which cats are male? We listen. They are always, and without exception, the whiny ones. They cry and whine everywhere they go. Like most males.
I looked out the bathroom window and saw him up there on the tomato trellis. The birds like to sit on the arched trellises and he was sitting up there, quietly watching. Until I came along and took pictures. I ratted him out to the birds. The jig was up. He was no longer invisible.